Period of Youth happens to be a period of varying sentiments,indecisiveness and doubts.
- I find myself confused most of the times.
If you are feeling confused, it is probably because you are thinking about five different things at once, you can write a to- do list putting things you have to tackle in order of priority. This way you won’t have to think about them until you come against them on your list. Keep your goal of life clear in your mind. Strongest is the person who knows what he has to do in life or wants from life.
To succeed in your mission, you must have single minded devotion to your goal.
– A. P. J. Abdul Kalam
- I am feeling boredom.
Have you ever eaten an energy bar? Change is everybody’s business is meant to be an energy bar for you in working with change. Engaging yourself at least one time in a day in leisure activities like sports, talking to friends, music or dance or humor is must for everyday even in examination period. It helps you bring your own power and resources to the surface. If it does not work, it simply indicates that you need to be serious over this matter and do not avoid this. Continuous feeling of boredom may push you towards Depression.
You will feel boredom where there is absence of good idea.
– Earl Nightingale
- A girlfriend/boyfriend or academic achievement – What do I need more?
We are habitual to code pleasure principle with intimate relationships only. Sexual and intellectual stimulation both are equally important sources of pleasure principle. Psychologically if a couple is intellectually together, they are more likely to relish moments. Intellect is something which is going to give justice both the fields e.g. relationships as well as academics. More rational choices you make, the more intellectual you will be.
The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that you are in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.
– Tony Robbins
- Most of the things we know but still get addicted.
People get addicted generally to compensate for mental health problems like anxiety, hyper competitiveness, loneliness, stress, depression, guilt, continuous failure. The most relaxing recreating force is cracking and attending jokes for the sake of laughter as laughter restores your energy to beat indicators of addiction. There is always a standard line to explore something and take risks; one can’t staple his own tongue just to know how it feels. Don’t make your mind aloof; Give five minutes every day by talking to yourself like counting your activities throughout the day to have an eye on yourself.
We make our habits then habits make us.
– John Dryden
- Every time I plan before starting a project and I leave in between.
When you are in wavering state of mind, you are most likely to quit. When you have to decide to initiate an assignment or any work, ask yourself three questions: Do I really have to do this job? Should I get it completed so that it will stop playing in my mind? Will the job be easier if I leave it to do later? When you ask yourself those simple questions, it will make you think about the task and make your realize that it will not go away by screwing the problem again and again.
The power of concentration is the only key to the treasure house of knowledge.
– Swami Vivekananda
- I know everything but even then having difficulty to fight with kid of stress.
Kick off comparison syndrome right now. It could be very stressful if you are always on the lookout for who is better than you, as that act breeds negative feelings on your part. one thing that should be pretty clear in your mind that wherever you are or go in life, there will always be that person who does one thing better than you. Does that mean every time you come across such people you start feeling sorry for yourself or feel like life has not given you enough?
Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight.
– Benjamin Franklin